“What would an ideal date be like to you?”
“Like nothing.”
“Like what?”
“Like nothing. I love the nothingness. What exactly do we do when we are together? Nothing. We sit inside watching a TV series. We sit outside in the garden in utter silence. The sheer beauty of the fact that we are together reduces the need to fill our moments with a name-able activity to a blank nothing.
My ideal date? Binge-watching F.R.I.E.N.D.S with you on the couch as we wait for the pizza delivery. And when someone asks me later what I did over the weekend? I would say Nothing.”
Copyright © Neha Sharma
July 9, 2018 at 4:37 pm
nothing to say 😛
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July 9, 2018 at 4:38 pm
Haha 😛
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July 9, 2018 at 4:38 pm
I will date online and break up 😛 cos it’s easy to forget
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July 9, 2018 at 4:40 pm
Lol 😀
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July 9, 2018 at 4:41 pm
😛
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August 17, 2018 at 8:09 pm
I totally agree with this…the nothingness is a lot and truly, when we just sit together, nothing else matters and the presence is just enough till the weekend is over and we are back to our regular lives of a 9 – 6. Lovely read.
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August 17, 2018 at 8:36 pm
Thank you! So glad to know that we think alike on this ❤
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August 17, 2018 at 8:16 pm
Haha..😛
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August 17, 2018 at 8:36 pm
😀 😀
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August 17, 2018 at 9:01 pm
😍
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August 17, 2018 at 11:32 pm
❤
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August 17, 2018 at 9:20 pm
Nothing is everything 💛💛
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August 17, 2018 at 11:33 pm
It sure is, Jaya ❤
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August 17, 2018 at 9:29 pm
❤
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August 17, 2018 at 11:33 pm
❤
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August 17, 2018 at 9:34 pm
Everything in nothingness❤️
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August 17, 2018 at 11:33 pm
And nothingness is everything ❤ ❤
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August 17, 2018 at 10:05 pm
Nothing can sometimes be a beautiful something!
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August 17, 2018 at 11:34 pm
I agree so much! Thanks for reading it, Malcolm 🙂
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August 18, 2018 at 12:34 am
I really enjoyed this nothingness😉
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August 18, 2018 at 1:24 am
I am so glad you did! ❤
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August 18, 2018 at 12:36 am
This is beautifully deep and made me laugh too!😁
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August 18, 2018 at 1:25 am
That is such a kind compliment! I am so glad you liked it 🙂
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August 18, 2018 at 12:40 am
Love this. If only everybody could savour the sweet nothing 😀
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August 18, 2018 at 1:25 am
I know, right! Why do people make life so hard 😀
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August 18, 2018 at 12:48 am
Aha..a perfect date with the fragrance of the love fills the emptiness of the silence, who needs hollow words anyway.
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August 18, 2018 at 1:26 am
I agree so much on this! It is such a unique delight to be this comfortable with someone that nothingness is a thing to be cherished ❤ ❤
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August 18, 2018 at 1:49 am
If its not a fiction then I must say, you are a lucky girl.Stay blessed!
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August 18, 2018 at 1:02 pm
Thank you, Megha! It is not fiction but is based on an actual conversation ❤ ❤
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August 18, 2018 at 9:42 pm
Awww how sweet.
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August 19, 2018 at 3:17 pm
❤
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August 18, 2018 at 4:23 am
I like the thought! It’s hard to find someone who’s willing to go through the “nothing” with you, we think it’s just a simple daily activity but if the person is able to appreciate the moment being with us in simpleness, then that’s what we truly should be looking for 🙂
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August 18, 2018 at 1:03 pm
I agree so much! Nothing is everything ❤
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August 18, 2018 at 6:38 pm
Yes, indeed! Your thoughts were awesome!
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August 19, 2018 at 3:15 pm
Thank you 🙂
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August 19, 2018 at 5:25 pm
You’re welcome 🙂
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August 19, 2018 at 5:53 pm
🙂
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August 18, 2018 at 4:55 am
You just described the dream date: a winter evening, friends marathon, a fluffy couch, a warm blanket, maybe a cup of warm tea and yeah we did nothing. 👌👌👌
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August 18, 2018 at 1:04 pm
Thank you for such a beautiful comment. I love the ‘nothing’ weekends 🙂
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August 18, 2018 at 1:05 pm
My pleasure, yeah, these weekends are never a waste of time like people think.
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August 19, 2018 at 3:13 pm
So true 🙂
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August 19, 2018 at 3:14 pm
Glad you agree 😊😊
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August 19, 2018 at 3:21 pm
I do 🙂
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August 19, 2018 at 3:21 pm
😊😊
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August 18, 2018 at 8:47 am
Ditto same here
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August 18, 2018 at 1:05 pm
So glad to hear that! ❤
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August 18, 2018 at 9:50 am
Your ideal date makes me think of the term “sweet nothings”. Your nothingness is silent but it still sounds sweet to me.
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August 19, 2018 at 3:13 pm
Thank you for such a sweet comment ❤ ❤
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August 19, 2018 at 11:25 am
Have felt this nothingness,not in this way.But it’s quite heartwarming ❤️
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August 19, 2018 at 3:20 pm
It sure is! Thank you for reading 🙂
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August 19, 2018 at 12:42 pm
With such crazy busy hectic schedules…I would love bingeing on nothingness….bring it on.
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August 19, 2018 at 3:20 pm
So true! 🙂
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August 19, 2018 at 3:35 pm
I will just for now have dates only, good for health and mind. 😁😁😜
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August 19, 2018 at 4:19 pm
Haha. Those dates are the start to the mentioned one 🙂
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August 19, 2018 at 5:26 pm
😁😁😂, Really, I have got lot of dates now.
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August 19, 2018 at 5:53 pm
😛 😛
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August 19, 2018 at 3:45 pm
Lovely. I love this concept. Would love to ha e something like this ❤️❤️
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August 19, 2018 at 4:20 pm
That’s awesome! 🙂
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August 19, 2018 at 4:22 pm
😊🌸
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August 19, 2018 at 9:16 pm
Haha….This is so relatable.
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August 19, 2018 at 9:17 pm
I am so glad I am not the only one with this opinion 😀 😀
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August 21, 2018 at 10:52 pm
Nice one Neha! This has such a lightness to it. Great 😊
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August 21, 2018 at 10:54 pm
Thank you so much! 🙂
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August 22, 2018 at 9:53 am
Love lies not in the things we say nor do; love lies in the spaces in between. Lovely piece 🙂
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August 22, 2018 at 11:21 am
True that! Thanks for reading 🙂
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August 24, 2018 at 8:37 am
Lovely! The ideal date indeed! 😊
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August 24, 2018 at 1:35 pm
Indeed! 🙂
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August 24, 2018 at 8:20 pm
🙂
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August 25, 2018 at 5:46 pm
❤
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August 26, 2018 at 8:44 am
This would be the best date for me!💕
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August 26, 2018 at 1:59 pm
I am so glad to know that you think so! ❤
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August 28, 2018 at 9:39 pm
Where consciousness melts with in each other… It’s the bonding between two souls in a deep divine oneness!!!
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August 28, 2018 at 9:54 pm
It sure is! Thank you for reading it 🙂
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August 28, 2018 at 9:56 pm
😊👍
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August 28, 2018 at 10:59 pm
Wonderful 🙂
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August 29, 2018 at 11:10 am
So glad to know it clicked with you, my friend 🙂
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September 7, 2018 at 1:15 pm
❤❤❤
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October 3, 2018 at 9:12 pm
This is awesome. I love dates. Started a blog here about them lol
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October 3, 2018 at 10:19 pm
Haha! That’s interesting. Will check it out 🙂
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February 15, 2019 at 9:21 pm
Do nothing but find love in each other eyes.
Speak nothing but feel love all around me. Great post😍😍😊😊
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February 26, 2019 at 1:06 pm
Thank you so much 🙂
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March 28, 2019 at 8:19 am
I’m not sure I understand the ‘nothingness’…in a way I do…in many other ways I don’t!
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